While being in a pandemic some people find it very difficult to invest in their sex lives. Especially when they’re single or in a long-distance relationship. Virtual sex may be the answer to all your doubts and problems. It’s something many of us are already used to, but there is still a relatively big group of people who aren’t sure if this is something they would like. Isn’t it awkward to enjoy virtual sex? Where do you even position your phone or tablet? How can you feel really excited about ‘having sex with your virtual partner when you can’t even be physically close together? Here are a few tips which will help you to enjoy virtual sex on a whole new level, without the awkwardness.
Smart use of sex toys
Not being able to have a physical connection with your virtual partner can be hard. At first, having virtual sex is exciting enough, but after a few times, it may be more fun to experiment with a few new elements. Such as sex toys. Dildos can be great to experience the more ‘real life’ feeling of being penetrated. It’s even more fun when your virtual partner uses sex toys as well. This way you can show each other your toys, share the feeling and simply enjoy looking at each other while bringing yourself to an orgasm.
Communication
Communication is key, not only in real life but also when you’re having virtual sex. Even more when virtual sex is new for you. It can be very awkward when your virtual sex partner is much more experienced and tries new things, while you are simply watching and wondering what it is you should do. Is it necessary to use some great huge dildos as well? Do you have to participate in some of the things he or she does? Is it required to exchange dirty talk? When you overthink virtual sex too much, this won’t be as much fun as you want it to be.
That’s why it’s important to communicate before you start. What are your boundaries? What are the things you feel comfortable about sharing? And what things are an absolute no-go? When the boundaries are clear, you’ll enjoy your first-time virtual sex much more.
Where to put your phone?
For starters, the question: Where to put your phone, can be very important. Luckily this isn’t as hard as you may think. It’s important to put your phone against something steady and make sure it won’t fall over when you in the middle of your ‘session’. Put it against an open laptop, tape it to your nightstand or simply let it lean against a thick book.
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